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WOMEN : I am what I am (1)

Hey, sit back, and relax. I know we all have been through a lot of dramas and crazy stuff in a past weeks, but why let get it over you when you can choose to be happy and smile. By saying that, I have some beautiful creatures to show you. Hope they make you smile ( good smile )


This is Mewika Onishi – A woman who works 6 days a week, 10 hours a day. I have known her for years and for me she has a “Mother” character. This special woman gets up and makes breakfast for her husband and guests( like myself) before she goes to work, and dinner is always be served on time. The priority for her is make sure she done her job as a wife and then she can easily put on her high heels and hit the dance floor.

Nok B.

Nok is a volunteer for Camillian Home. Camillian Home is a house for children living with disabilities ( some of us who are enable to get a life might want to stay there???) This stunning young woman lives 24/7 there with the kids. Is she an angel or what? Not to mention the fact that Nok is such a funny,loving, and carrying woman, Nok also has her own business that she left it behind so that she can dedicate herself for these underprivileged kids.

Bo Galberski

Big part of the work had done nicely by Bo Galberski, the F and B manager of 4 points hotel ( F and B stand for food and beverage. I know how dirty mind works) Living in Thailand as a foreigner can be quite challenging and disturbing at the same time. Bo has made her living comfortably enjoyable and get along fine in this society. A single woman making a way in a developing country and fighting through men’s ego and madness of alcohol, you tell me it’s easy? NAH, not in Bangkok. It takes some spiritual strength to go through that and she done it.

Alicia Mckenzie

You wouldn’t be able to guess how old Alicia is? I won’t tell you either. The number will surprise you BIG TIME, and you might think twice about getting a face left or some botox shots. Alicia is a bilingual, born in Thailand and raised in Scotland. She is a perfect example of ” Moderation”. The life she lives, working at her boutique and hotel, the way she presents to the world ” east meets west” Too bad,my Alicia is taken so you guys can just look but do not even try.


Because I am a woman, I must make unusual efforts to succeed.  If I fail, no one will say, “She doesn’t have what it takes.”  They will say, “Women don’t have what it takes.”  ~Clare Boothe Luce


More to some soon, Stay tuned

Thanks my camera one ,Julie Jewel



I love the beauty of female

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Apart from wikipedia definition of sex which is : the act of sexual procreation between a man and a woman … (or else if you prefer)

Sex isn’t all about physical satisfaction, it’s involved emotions as well.


Love is … hmm  … I will just use whatever wikipedia said. OK, start again..



“ an emotion of strong affection and personal attachment” or

“ actions towards others (or oneself) based on compassion, or as actions towards others based on affection”

Whatever it is!!  Love is good. To love, to be loved, to fall in and out of love, LOVE IS GOOD, you just have to be wise and use your head along with your heart.

Ok, this shit happens... seriously!!

When two people attract to each other physically, they fall in love , and blah blah blah they have sex!!!

Sex causes strong emotions. Having sex is the most intimate activity a couple could do together.( REPEAT TOGETHER : TWO – GET – THER)

It is not all about physical fulfillment. Well, it is…. but not all !!!

Having sex with the one you love is a MAGIC. It is a magic for two. You can’t be the one who work the wand(I specifically used this term) you need a good wand that is suitable for you. (Just like Harry Potter and his wand) THE WAND THAT WORKS!!!

 Do we need to fall in love to have sex?

Personally, I don’t think you NEED. It is not A MUST. But to have a magic and feel a real connection between the body and soul then yes.It is a zillion time better to have sex with the person you deeply falling in love with.

A lot of people out there use the word “ LOVE”  to justify the action (sex) to make it rational and to convince themselves.  That’s why some people are lured into the whole DRAG ME TO BED game so easily!!

I hate your face, let me shoot you?!?!?

Just because someone tell you they love you doesn’t mean they have an approval visa to enter your territory!!!

You can love me all you want, but you aren’t gonna get any!

As long as you don't try to get into my ASS

I just don’t see the point of “ I have sex with him because he said he loves me ( and a few others) Why do girls need to be fooled by such beautiful word in order to relieve some dick head sexual tension?

Am I promoting  SEX without LOVE? NO, AND NO NO NO!

I promote sex with responsibility. Sex with some serious accountability, and safe sex. I don’t know for sure if the person you having sex with, is the one you truly, deeply, madly love?? You just need to be sure you do all that with 100% responsibility of your own. At your own risk!

What the fark is that?????

We are not some high school girls. Nobody can tell you when is the right time to have sex (or right place even)  You know if you do it( you can clap your hands lol)  If you do it, you are in charge of consequences , whatever they are.

It is a lot wiser to have sex when you are physically, emotionally, and financially READY!

(I don’t know how much durex cost , but you need some dough for that shit, don’t you? you can’t count on men)

Sex isn’t an action alone. Sex is sharing, caring and working together. It requires both physical and mental healthiness. If you think of sex as a self pleasure, you miss out BIG TIME. The joy of pleasing each other, giving and taking are one most wonderful experience you can have. The two bodies sharing, gaining,giving to one another… How can sex be nasty? It is beautiful. You just use it in a wrong way!!!

SEX, just do it if you are ready and you want it. Just do it if you can handle the result. Just do it with the one you are happy doing it with. Just do it if it gives you pleasure more than pain.

That's what I am talking about

Don’t do it if you just want to do it,without knowing any of its process.

And yes, you can do it alone!!!



Jigsaw 1 : I will find you

Alright it has been quite a long stressful day, so why don’t I do this just to release my …. exhale in phewww out ….

1,000 pieces need to be found

Let me tell you about the jigsaw.

The whole thing I am doing right now “The 9” photo exhibition is for me. Right, self-fish as it sounds, but I come up with the idea after finished half of the movie I stole from my friend “Aj”. 

I have never finished this movie : 7 attemps

Anyway, we donate the money to this lovely charity for these kids who are in need.

For me it’s not just that. It’s more like a game.We are like little pieces and  all over places. Some of us are perfect for each other, some of us have been missing somewhere, and many of us have been stick with a VERY WRONG PIECE.

We have a talented stylist Sammi (who is actually .. where is she?)  We have such a lovely boutique owner, makeup artist, hair stylish, photographers, and all.

I put them in places and obviously not every piece matches.

He will find you HAHAHA…..and you pick your way out…

The point is you will never know until you try.  The same process of finding your soul mate or yourself, you go left,right and wrong and try again.

This is my 1st event and this is something I dreamed of, the first person who said YES was Sam and then Joe, and I want to thank everyone of us who has been with me since day 1.



Have you found your piece?


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How many TRUE BELIEVERS do you have?

There’s so much craziness surrounding me. 

There’s so much going on it gets hard to breathe

When all my faith has gone, you bring it back to me,

You make it real for me

You can't take off without your co-pilot.

When I’m not sure of my priorities,
When I’ve lost sight of where I’m meant to be
And like holy water washing over me,
You make it real for me

And I am running to you baby,
You are the only one who saves me
That’s why I’ve been missing you lately,
‘Cause you make it real for me

You need someone you can trust for sure

When my head is strong, but my heart is weak,
I’m full of arrogance and uncertainty
When I can’t find the words, you teach my heart to speak,
You make it real for me

And I am running to you baby,
You are the only one who saves me
That’s why I’ve been missing you lately,
‘Cause you make it real for me

Everybody’s talking in words I don’t understand,
You’ve got to be the only one who knows just who I am
And you’re shining in the distance,
I hope I can make it through
‘Cause the only place that I want to be is right back home with you

What else does a normal person could possibly need?

I guess there’s so much more I have to learn,
But if you’re here with me, I know which way to turn
You always give me somewhere, somewhere I can run,

Guess where? hehe

I have come to the point where I only need those people who bring a positive vibe and believe me with all their heart that I can do it. Guess what? I can count how many of those with my one hand. ONE HAND!!!

How many people you call “Friend” ? They will be there for you when you up and down, but will they believe in what you do without a doubt?

Thanks James Morrison for the song. He’s freaking hot

Homeless Look, Musician .. I don't want more than this


Listen to it and you will get what I mean

Wim in a rainy day

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So you think you know the answers?

to live???? duh!

This is going to take you a lot of time. It could be days, weeks, months, or years.
The sooner, the better. There are 2 simple questions in life that you have been always asked since you were a kid and the answers seem to change from time to time.
Goal changes, Fine!
Here are 2 questions I was asked yesterday and it got me going.
1) Where would you want to be?
2) What do you want to do?


This wonderful woman who is a wife of my friend asked me these questions and gave me some good advices which I will be writing about that later.
Now, I would like to know if you guys have the answers for those questions?
Think about it very carefully because what you think you want,or where you think you want to be might be not YOUR CHOICE. Answer them by yourself, with yourself, for yourself.


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Do you give your secretary authority to ruin your business?


She might actually ruin your personal life too.


You are in a position of making a big call. Buying newspapers, brief the new staffs,  pick the color of a tie before a meeting, get Americano with ¼ of a cup of brown sugar, and write a valentine’s card to your wife shouldn’t be an issue or distract you at all.


You have a person in charge; A secretary / an assistant


Apart from schedule the boss, and personal errands what else secretaries do?


being a business cock blocked.


It is not easy to get to the CEO without pleasing the front door (a secretary, not that kinda door) No matter what business it is, doesn’t matter how important, doesn’t care why is it different? LEAVE YOUR MASSAGE ……


Put your boobs on the phone bitch! ... I mean Boss!


Do you realize what sort of opportunity you would have had if you didn’t miss that one phone call?


I understand you trust your secretary and their job is to listen to you. Whatever you say need to be followed. That’s their job.


Your job is to make some profit and hit the target. Would you do whatever it takes to get there? I am pretty sure you would say YES.

Even 1 % counts, and that would be from those declined offers your secretary made.


Better to hire a secretary to run the company if you don't do your work!

Since, when you give a total power of your company to a hand of your secretary?   It is impossible to pick up every phone call by yourself and answer some idiotic questions every now and then when you have better shit to do.


Your secretary can be a business genius (I doubt that if he/she was you wouldn’t be the boss, would you?) but people do have bad days, personal anger and dislike. Small factors like these are INCLUSIVE.



One of these days I might call you just because I have an extraordinary technology and a bad ass marketing strategy which would save your business and another 100 employees from economic crisis, but if unfortunately your secretary is on her period and had a fight with her boyfriend, decided to put me on hold and since I am the kind of person who hates waiting because I know there will be plenty of companies out there waiting for me. I didn’t get a chance to show you how my system works and I couldn’t explain because my explanation to a moody bitch was ignored by someone who is unable to comprehend it and incapable of making such a decision anyway. So I wouldn’t waste my time there. (She actually has a power more than you think she does)


Don’t forget your role. Does your business card still have a title of CEO/Founder/Director? If so why don’t you keep it that way?

Maybe it is just me. I don’t really trust people when it comes to my work. I do believe that nobody cares about your interest more than you.

You have your interest to protect and you do have some benefit to gain. I would rather be the one who makes a wrong call than not knowing there are calls out there and then miss many opportunities.

Play your part well, ladies

I hope you are smarter than your secretary



Business Frustrating at this point.

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Sex is like snow, you never know how many inches you’re going to get or how long it will last



Love is the answer, but while you are waiting for the answer sex raises some pretty good questions

= You never know. Never say never. Shit happens and sometimes it turns out good. Most of the time it doesn’t though.


Sex appeal is fifty percent what you’ve got and fifty percent what people think you’ve got.

= 100% what I think I have got


It needs to be done

Sex is more than an act of pleasure, its’ the ability to be able to feel so close to a person, so connected, so comfortable that it’s almost breathtaking to the point you feel you can’t take it. And at this moment you’re a part of them. 

Strongly suggest you to see Conan to get this.....


Sex is like air; it’s not important unless you aren’t getting any =  I can’t breath….




Just something for fun … Why not, right?


I can make your bed (L)rocks ….